
Private & Family
Family Law
Family Law
We offer competent and reliable advice and representation in family law from our specialist lawyer for family law, Rebecca Müller.
Our lawyers also advise our private clients on tenancy law and labor law and can assist you in matters relating to claims for damages or defense against claims by third parties.
We can conduct the divorce proceedings (or the proceedings to dissolve the registered civil partnership in the case of same-sex couples) and the proceedings connected with divorce and separation, such as parental custody and contact with joint children or the division of assets (for example the realization of the equalization of accrued gains) for you.
Our focus is on settling the consequences of separation as amicably as possible – avoiding unnecessary legal disputes. To this end and to support an amicable divorce, we can draft or review an agreement between the spouses (or partners) on the consequences of divorce. All relevant topics, such as the equalization of accrued gains, contact, household effects, alimony, and the marital home can be arranged here.
Divorce and separation by mutual agreement
Dissolution of international marriage constellations and civil partnerships
Parental care and contact
Contractual drafting of prenuptial agreements and separation agreements
Asset regulations
Frequently asked questions about Private & Family
Since we have fully electronic file management and meet with our clients via a wide variety of
communication channels, we handle consensual divorces throughout Germany without you having to come to one of our offices, i.e. virtually online.
The only requirement is a personal hearing at the court date. However, there are also possibilities to avoid a personal appearance if, for example, you live far away from the court, live abroad in the meantime or have just
travelled.
After everything has been prepared in advance in person or online, the petition for divorce must be
submitted to the court by a lawyer. This means that the spouse filing the petition needs to be represented by a lawyer and the other spouse does not need to be represented by a lawyer, but only needs to agree to the divorce.
Divorce can be filed (as in a contested case) after a separation year. The separation usually takes place by one spouse moving out of the joint home. However, a separation of "table and bed" in the jointly occupied flat is also sufficient for a separation, whereby all areas of life must be separated from each other.
Agreed statements about the length of the separation period are not reviewed by the court.
Even if the spouses agree on all other issues, the court carries out the so-called pension equalisation ex officio, even without an application, if they were married for more than three years. This concerns the equalisation of pension entitlements acquired during the marriage. However, this can be waived by a notarial agreement or a court record. Of course, the pension entitlements can also be settled together with an mutual divorce settlement, in which case notarial form is required.
If there are joint children of the spouses, a declaration is required that joint parental care is to continue and that contact is regulated. If the spouses have agreed otherwise in this respect, a declaration is required as to how this is to be regulated. In addition, it must be stated that the other spouse will consent to the divorce.
A declaration is also required that the maintenance obligation towards their child or children, the spousal maintenance and the legal relationships to the home and household effects have been agreed upon.
Since the family law reform, however, it is no longer a prerequisite that a notarially agreed or recorded divorce settlement be made.
The marriage certificate and the birth certificate of the joint minor children should be attached to the petition (§133 II FamFG (Family code)).
It is sufficient to submit copies of the application. Since we now transmit the petition electronically to the court, a scan of the documents is sufficient for the time being. However, the originals - as well as an identification document of the parties - must be brought to the divorce hearing, at the latest.
No, an employment contract can also be concluded orally or tacitly, in which case it can of course be difficult to prove the content of the contract. However, fixed-term contracts must be agreed in writing, usually before the employment contract begins. Termination agreements or notices of termination must also be in writing.
Under the Verification Act, companies are also obliged to confirm the essential terms of the contract to the employee in writing.
In principle, an employment contract can be terminated subject to the statutory minimum notice period. However, for companies that usually employ more than 10 employees - after the expiry of a 6-month waiting period - the Employment Protection Act (Kündigungsschutzgesetz) is usually applicable, which imposes additional requirements for termination by the employer.
Unless severance pay is already offered in the employment contract or with the notice of termination in the event that no action is brought, there is usually no entitlement to severance pay. If a dismissal is contested by means of an action for protection against unfair dismissal, however, a severance payment is often agreed by way of a settlement in order to end the dispute over the right to dismissal.
The notice period for employee terminations is regulated in § 622 of the German Civil Code (BGB). As a rule, it is 4 weeks (unless otherwise agreed in the employment contract) to the 15th or to the end of a calendar month.
In contrast, the notice period for employer-side terminations is staggered according to how long the employment relationship existed; here the notice period is extended after 2 years to 1 month to the end of a calendar month, after 5 years to 2 months to the end of a calendar month, and so on. The exact periods of notice are regulated in § 622 BGB.
In principle, the notice periods for employee terminations cannot be shortened. Longer notice periods may also be agreed for employee-side notices of termination, but these may not be longer than for employer-side notices of termination.
During a probationary period of a maximum of 6 weeks, the notice period may also be reduced - for both parties - to at least 2 weeks. However, this must be agreed.
The statutory minimum holiday entitlement per calendar year is usually 24 working days, which is regulated in the Federal Holiday Act. Working days are Monday to Friday, so this is 4 weeks. If 5 days are worked, this is to be quota accordingly, i.e. the statutory minimum leave is 20 working days, which is also 4 weeks. Less than 4 weeks of leave per calendar year cannot be agreed.
Additional leave (also called "contractual leave entitlement") is regularly agreed and can often be found in company agreements or collective agreements.
Yes, but not everywhere and not for all flats.
Depending on the place and time of first occupancy, residential rents in Germany are regulated. The rules of the so-called Mietpreisbremse (rent brake) apply in areas for which the state legislature has determined a tight housing market by ordinance, such as for the whole of Berlin, but also other cities.
Exceptions: In such areas, however, the rent cap only applies to housing that was first used and rented before 01.10.2014. Moreover, housing that was extensively modernised after 01.10.2014 and then rented for the first time is excluded. Comprehensive modernisation can be assumed if the condition is roughly equivalent to a new building AND the modernisation costs amounted to at least approx. 1/3 of the new building costs.
If the Mietpreisbremse (rent brake) applies, the rent for re-letting and first letting may not be higher than 10% above the local comparable rent OR a higher previous rent that was validly agreed.
Caution: The landlord can only invoke an exception or a higher previous rent if he informed the tenant of this before the contract was concluded.
In Germany, residential tenancy agreements are usually concluded for an indefinite period. The tenant can terminate the lease with three months' notice to the end of the month. The landlord can only terminate for good cause (breach of contract, own need), §§ 543, 569 BGB (Civil Code).
A fixed-term tenancy agreement can also only be concluded in residential tenancy law if there is a reason recognised by law (e.g. own need) which is communicated in writing when the agreement is concluded, § 575 BGB. If this is not the case, the time limit is invalid and the tenancy agreement runs for an indefinite period.
Except in the case of own use, a time limit can only be agreed in tenancy agreements for temporary use or for granny flats, § 549 BGB.
A fixed term of one or two years with the possibility of renewal, as we know it in some other legal systems, is nevertheless sometimes chosen to assure the tenant that he does not have to expect termination before the End of the contract, which in Germany would only be possible anyway if there is an important reason.
If the landlord also wants to ensure that the tenant does not terminate before the end of 1 or 2 years, he must do so in Germany by agreeing on a mutual exclusion of termination.
In commercial tenancy law there is no restriction on the landlord's notice and the time limit. In order to ensure that the commercial tenant can use the premises at the agreed rent for a certain period of time, the parties to the commercial tenancy agreement therefore usually agree on a time limit and not infrequently on option rights with which the tenant can extend the agreement even without the landlord's consent. However, this also increases the risk for the commercial tenant, as the tenant cannot terminate the lease before the end of the rental period, even if things are not going well in the business or the tenant wants to move.
The statutory right of withdrawal applies in particular to so-called distance contracts, i.e. contracts concluded via the internet, telephone or fax, as well as doorstep contracts, where a business comes to the consumer's home. There are other constellations, such as consumer loan contracts or insurance contracts.
The right of withdrawal is usually 14 days. What is important is that the company must first properly inform the consumer about the right of withdrawal. Since this is surprisingly often not the case, consumers often still have the possibility to cancel a contract much later. This is particularly exciting in the case of expensive loan and insurance contracts or brokerage contracts.
Since the question of whether a right of cancellation exists at all, still exists or perhaps no longer exists depends on many factors, this should always be checked in order to know possible rights, but also obligations and the resulting consequences.
The warranty applies to all new and used goods sold by a business to a consumer. It lasts 2 years and can be reduced to 1 year for used goods. With the warranty, the seller must take responsibility for defects in the goods that were already present when the goods were handed over.
It is important that the defect does not have to have already become apparent. If, for example, a component is broken that only leads to a defect months later, the defect was nevertheless already present when the goods were handed over.
The contact person is always the seller. He gives the warranty by law. He cannot exclude this either.
The guarantee is a voluntary and individual quality promise that is often given by manufacturers. It is governed solely by the guarantee-provisions and has nothing to do with the warranty, nor can it replace it.

Private & Family
Family Law
Family Law
We offer competent and reliable advice and representation in family law by our specialist lawyer for family law Rebecca Müller.
Our lawyers also advise our private clients on tenancy law and labour law and assist you in matters relating to claims for damages or defence against claims by third parties. We conduct the divorce proceedings (or the proceedings to dissolve the registe red civil partnership in the case of same – sex couples) and the proceedings connected with the divorce and separation, such as parental custody and contact with joint children or the division of assets (for example, implementation of the equalisation of gains) for you.
Our focus is on settling the consequences of separation as amicably as possible – avoiding unnecessary legal disputes. To this end and to support an amicable divorce, we draft or review an agreement between the spouses (or partners) on the consequences of the divorce. All relevant topics, such as equalisation of gains, contact, household effects, maintenance and the marital home can be regulated here.
Divorce and separation by mutual consent
Divorce and separation by mutual consent
In principle, a marriage can only be annulled in Germany by divorce by a German court. The application to the family court must be submitted by a lawyer.
This applies equally to divorce by mutual consent and divorce by litigation.
Divorce by mutual consent is the cheapest, fastest and most peaceful way of divorce.
It is possible when the spouses agree that they want to get divorced. You do not have any further points of conflict regarding the consequences of divorce (alimony, property division, parental care, contact, household effects) or you have already settled these issues contractually or these issues can be settled amicably (for example in a divorce settlement agreement drafted by us).
In this case, it is not necessary to provide further information on the reason for the breakdown. So the “marriage history” is irrelevant.
Resolution of international marriage constellations and civil partnerships
As our law firm is internationally oriented, we have two decades of experience with international divorces (or dissolution of civil partnerships) and subsequent matters.
This applies in particular to binational divorces ( when one spouse is German and the other is not) and international divorces ( two foreign spouses).
In this context, we clarify questions regarding the international jurisdiction of the courts and the applicability of the German or foreign legal system and draft agreements on relevant topics between spouses bilingually, German-English.
In most cases, it is also advisable to conclude a marriage contract prior to marriage, even though it is often difficult to think about the possible consequences of a separation when getting married. We are happy to help you with this and prepare the notarized marriage contract.
Parental care and contact
The standard case provided for by law in the event of permanent separation of the parents or divorce is that the parents retain joint custody. Joint custody always exists if no applications are made in this regard in the divorce proceedings.
If sole custody is to be transferred to one parent (in connection with a divorce, but also independently of it), the other parent must agree (unless the child has reached the age of 14 and objects to the transfer) or if it is to be expected that the termination of joint parental custody and the transfer to the applicant is in the best interests of the child (section 1671 (2) of the German Civil Code)
Joint parental custody is always at issue when it comes to the care of persons and property (choice of doctor, choice of school, opening a bank account), or where the joint child is to reside (right to determine the place of residence).
If you cannot agree on this, a court must decide on this. Since court proceedings about this are usually not in the best interest of the child, we are happy to help you come to an agreement about custody issues. However, we are of course also at your disposal if you wish to apply for sole custody or if the other parent has applied for sole custody.
Issues that affect the child but are only everyday matters and are not of significant importance do not affect custody.
Also to be distinguished from custody is the right of contact with the child, which is due to the parent who does not primarily care for the child.
This often involves mutually agreeing on contact and determining when the non-custodial parent has the right to have contact with the child and spend time with the child. Questions as to how long and frequently contact should take place, whether only one week’s contact is desired, or whether the parents or one parent want the so-called alternating model, also belong here.
Again, in the best interests of the child, it is best to find a mutually agreeable solution. In the event that such cannot be achieved, we naturally draw on extensive litigation experience throughout Germany.
Contractual drafting of prenuptial agreements and separation agreements
In order to ensure fair dealings with each other and competent proposals for solutions, one of our main focuses in family law is to settle the consequences of separation and divorce as amicably as possible while avoiding unnecessary litigation.
For this purpose and in order to support an amicable divorce, we draft or review an agreement between the spouses (or cohabitants) on the divorce consequences. All relevant issues, such as the division of joint assets or debts, equalization of gains, contact, household effects, maintenance and the marital home can be settled here.
Also in the run-up to the marriage or during the marriage, the conclusion of a marriage contract is often necessary or sensible, the contractual drafting of which we are happy to take over.
Any contractual arrangement in family law can be made in German-English for our international clients.
Due to our training as a specialist lawyer for family law, continuous further training and more than two decades of experience, we are always up to date and can competently advise you on all subsequent questions of marriage, separation and divorce, as well as take over the contractual design, so that fair and peaceful dealings can always take place and disputes between the spouses can be prevented or resolved.
Asset regulations
We also have decades of experience in the area of property issues in separation and divorce.
This includes the division of joint assets such as joint real estate (keyword: home) or accounts.
We assist in the contractual drafting of property division clauses and thus also the settlement claims between the spouses to be settled if the property is taken over by one spouse or sold to a third party.
We also help with the calculation and implementation of the equalization of gains in the case of community of gains according to German law and also offer here the draft of a contractual basis bilingually.
Frequently asked questions about Private & Family
Since we have fully electronic file management and meet with our clients via a wide variety of
communication channels, we handle consensual divorces throughout Germany without you having to come to one of our offices, i.e. virtually online.
The only requirement is a personal hearing at the court date. However, there are also possibilities to avoid a personal appearance if, for example, you live far away from the court, live abroad in the meantime or have just
travelled.
After everything has been prepared in advance in person or online, the petition for divorce must be
submitted to the court by a lawyer. This means that the spouse filing the petition needs to be represented by a lawyer and the other spouse does not need to be represented by a lawyer, but only needs to agree to the divorce.
Divorce can be filed (as in a contested case) after a separation year. The separation usually takes place by one spouse moving out of the joint home. However, a separation of "table and bed" in the jointly occupied flat is also sufficient for a separation, whereby all areas of life must be separated from each other.
Agreed statements about the length of the separation period are not reviewed by the court.
Even if the spouses agree on all other issues, the court carries out the so-called pension equalisation ex officio, even without an application, if they were married for more than three years. This concerns the equalisation of pension entitlements acquired during the marriage. However, this can be waived by a notarial agreement or a court record. Of course, the pension entitlements can also be settled together with an mutual divorce settlement, in which case notarial form is required.
If there are joint children of the spouses, a declaration is required that joint parental care is to continue and that contact is regulated. If the spouses have agreed otherwise in this respect, a declaration is required as to how this is to be regulated. In addition, it must be stated that the other spouse will consent to the divorce.
A declaration is also required that the maintenance obligation towards their child or children, the spousal maintenance and the legal relationships to the home and household effects have been agreed upon.
Since the family law reform, however, it is no longer a prerequisite that a notarially agreed or recorded divorce settlement be made.
The marriage certificate and the birth certificate of the joint minor children should be attached to the petition (§133 II FamFG (Family code)).
It is sufficient to submit copies of the application. Since we now transmit the petition electronically to the court, a scan of the documents is sufficient for the time being. However, the originals - as well as an identification document of the parties - must be brought to the divorce hearing, at the latest.
No, an employment contract can also be concluded orally or tacitly, in which case it can of course be difficult to prove the content of the contract. However, fixed-term contracts must be agreed in writing, usually before the employment contract begins. Termination agreements or notices of termination must also be in writing.
Under the Verification Act, companies are also obliged to confirm the essential terms of the contract to the employee in writing.
In principle, an employment contract can be terminated subject to the statutory minimum notice period. However, for companies that usually employ more than 10 employees - after the expiry of a 6-month waiting period - the Employment Protection Act (Kündigungsschutzgesetz) is usually applicable, which imposes additional requirements for termination by the employer.
Unless severance pay is already offered in the employment contract or with the notice of termination in the event that no action is brought, there is usually no entitlement to severance pay. If a dismissal is contested by means of an action for protection against unfair dismissal, however, a severance payment is often agreed by way of a settlement in order to end the dispute over the right to dismissal.
The notice period for employee terminations is regulated in § 622 of the German Civil Code (BGB). As a rule, it is 4 weeks (unless otherwise agreed in the employment contract) to the 15th or to the end of a calendar month.
In contrast, the notice period for employer-side terminations is staggered according to how long the employment relationship existed; here the notice period is extended after 2 years to 1 month to the end of a calendar month, after 5 years to 2 months to the end of a calendar month, and so on. The exact periods of notice are regulated in § 622 BGB.
In principle, the notice periods for employee terminations cannot be shortened. Longer notice periods may also be agreed for employee-side notices of termination, but these may not be longer than for employer-side notices of termination.
During a probationary period of a maximum of 6 weeks, the notice period may also be reduced - for both parties - to at least 2 weeks. However, this must be agreed.
The statutory minimum holiday entitlement per calendar year is usually 24 working days, which is regulated in the Federal Holiday Act. Working days are Monday to Friday, so this is 4 weeks. If 5 days are worked, this is to be quota accordingly, i.e. the statutory minimum leave is 20 working days, which is also 4 weeks. Less than 4 weeks of leave per calendar year cannot be agreed.
Additional leave (also called "contractual leave entitlement") is regularly agreed and can often be found in company agreements or collective agreements.
Yes, but not everywhere and not for all flats.
Depending on the place and time of first occupancy, residential rents in Germany are regulated. The rules of the so-called Mietpreisbremse (rent brake) apply in areas for which the state legislature has determined a tight housing market by ordinance, such as for the whole of Berlin, but also other cities.
Exceptions: In such areas, however, the rent cap only applies to housing that was first used and rented before 01.10.2014. Moreover, housing that was extensively modernised after 01.10.2014 and then rented for the first time is excluded. Comprehensive modernisation can be assumed if the condition is roughly equivalent to a new building AND the modernisation costs amounted to at least approx. 1/3 of the new building costs.
If the Mietpreisbremse (rent brake) applies, the rent for re-letting and first letting may not be higher than 10% above the local comparable rent OR a higher previous rent that was validly agreed.
Caution: The landlord can only invoke an exception or a higher previous rent if he informed the tenant of this before the contract was concluded.
In Germany, residential tenancy agreements are usually concluded for an indefinite period. The tenant can terminate the lease with three months' notice to the end of the month. The landlord can only terminate for good cause (breach of contract, own need), §§ 543, 569 BGB (Civil Code).
A fixed-term tenancy agreement can also only be concluded in residential tenancy law if there is a reason recognised by law (e.g. own need) which is communicated in writing when the agreement is concluded, § 575 BGB. If this is not the case, the time limit is invalid and the tenancy agreement runs for an indefinite period.
Except in the case of own use, a time limit can only be agreed in tenancy agreements for temporary use or for granny flats, § 549 BGB.
A fixed term of one or two years with the possibility of renewal, as we know it in some other legal systems, is nevertheless sometimes chosen to assure the tenant that he does not have to expect termination before the End of the contract, which in Germany would only be possible anyway if there is an important reason.
If the landlord also wants to ensure that the tenant does not terminate before the end of 1 or 2 years, he must do so in Germany by agreeing on a mutual exclusion of termination.
In commercial tenancy law there is no restriction on the landlord's notice and the time limit. In order to ensure that the commercial tenant can use the premises at the agreed rent for a certain period of time, the parties to the commercial tenancy agreement therefore usually agree on a time limit and not infrequently on option rights with which the tenant can extend the agreement even without the landlord's consent. However, this also increases the risk for the commercial tenant, as the tenant cannot terminate the lease before the end of the rental period, even if things are not going well in the business or the tenant wants to move.
The statutory right of withdrawal applies in particular to so-called distance contracts, i.e. contracts concluded via the internet, telephone or fax, as well as doorstep contracts, where a business comes to the consumer's home. There are other constellations, such as consumer loan contracts or insurance contracts.
The right of withdrawal is usually 14 days. What is important is that the company must first properly inform the consumer about the right of withdrawal. Since this is surprisingly often not the case, consumers often still have the possibility to cancel a contract much later. This is particularly exciting in the case of expensive loan and insurance contracts or brokerage contracts.
Since the question of whether a right of cancellation exists at all, still exists or perhaps no longer exists depends on many factors, this should always be checked in order to know possible rights, but also obligations and the resulting consequences.
The warranty applies to all new and used goods sold by a business to a consumer. It lasts 2 years and can be reduced to 1 year for used goods. With the warranty, the seller must take responsibility for defects in the goods that were already present when the goods were handed over.
It is important that the defect does not have to have already become apparent. If, for example, a component is broken that only leads to a defect months later, the defect was nevertheless already present when the goods were handed over.
The contact person is always the seller. He gives the warranty by law. He cannot exclude this either.
The guarantee is a voluntary and individual quality promise that is often given by manufacturers. It is governed solely by the guarantee-provisions and has nothing to do with the warranty, nor can it replace it.


